Mediation sessions can be hosted over online video tools such as Zoom, Skype or Google Meets. In person mediation is still available as well.

First Consultation

We offer a complimentary 30 minute information session to explain the mediation process and to answer your questions. Both parties are required to attend the session.

WELCOME TO FORMEDIATION

ForMediation forms part of the Social Justice Network comprising of various experts in the Family Law field. Our mission is to provide families with a safe environment in which they can reach lasting agreements that will suit their unique circumstances.

LETS GET TALKING!

What is mediation?

Mediation is a process where a neutral and skilled mediator can assist families who are in conflict to work out arrangements for themselves and their children. Mediation is a voluntary process that can help two sides to reach an acceptable solution to their differences. A mediator can help the parties to examine ideas and options in a neutral, safe environment where they are both free to express their opinions. For Mediation treats the mediation as confidential and does not provide information to any third party, except where the parties expressly agree to this (such as sending summaries to your respective attorneys, if they have not taken part in the mediation).

What is litigation?

Litigation is the process of taking a dispute to a court of law. This process is complicated and formal, involving a series of technical steps in terms of the prescribed rules of the court. The parties are dependent on the experience of their legal representatives and the court’s interpretation of the facts of their case and the law, thereby placing the outcome of their case in the hands of other persons. The alternative to litigation in family matters is conciliation, mediation and facilitation.

Why choose mediation over litigation?

Less Stress

Compared to litigation, mediation is much less stressful. The process is easier and less formal than traditional litigation.

Less costs

The average cost of a litigated maintenance matter (increase/ arrear maintenance) can easily be more than R30 000 and the average cost of a mediated matter is usually less than R6000. When both spouses use one mediator they can share the cost. If they decide to mediate the dispute, they can expect to save more than 75% on legal costs. Should they choose to appoint an attorney, his or her fees should be discussed at the first consultation to avoid any later surprises. Litigation can easily trigger increased conflict, resulting in increased legal costs. A mediated divorce is typically settled in 6 hours or less. For those who cannot find a settlement through mediation, traditional legal intervention through divorce attorneys is always available as the next step.

You have more control over decisions

Would you prefer to make your own decision regarding your family, or would you rather let someone else decide on your behalf? When a family dispute goes to trial, the court will decide what is best for you and your family. You will then have to abide by the court’s decision. A better approach is to sit with your ex-partner and a skilled mediator and spend as much time as is needed to agree on the issues at hand. According to statistics, mediation takes 95% less time than court proceedings.

MOST CASES SETTLE

Did you know that most lawsuits settle on the doorsteps of the court? Why then not mediate your case from the onset? When the case is settled through mediation, the agreement can still be made an order of court. 80% of our cases settle during the first conciliation session.

MORE ENDURING AGREEMENTS

When “solutions” are imposed on people, they are more likely to resist them. A court may order certain specific conditions (such as a child visitation schedule) in a litigated divorce. This may cause one of the parties to comply reluctantly, leading to on-going strife, friction and misery. People who work together voluntarily to create a shared, mutually beneficial plan have a vested interest in the success of the plan. There is a much higher likelihood of the parties abiding by such a mutual agreement and having less conflict in the future.

Identify your problems but give your energy to solutions – Tony Robbins

Solutions We Offer

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